July 3, 2024

From Neighbors to Family

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From Neighbors to Family
Sycamore Creek Church &
Mt Hope United Methodist Church
Valhalla Park June 26, 2016
Tom Arthur

Peace family!

Today we’re baptizing many people.  What exactly is baptism?  In our baptism we move from being neighbors to being family.  Baptism is more than just a public profession of faith.  Baptism is entrance into the family of God.

Peter, one of Jesus’ closest friends, was preaching to Jerusalem shortly after Jesus’ death, resurrection, and ascension.  He apparently preached a pretty good sermon because this is how it ended:

Peter replied, “Each of you must repent of your sins and turn to God, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. This promise is to you, to your children, and to those far away—all who have been called by the Lord our God.” Then Peter continued preaching for a long time, strongly urging all his listeners, “Save yourselves from this crooked generation!”

Those who believed what Peter said were baptized and added to the church that day—about 3,000 in all.
~Acts 2:38-41 NLT

Those who were baptized that day were “added to the church.”  They became part of the church.  The Church is the community of friends who are together following Jesus.  The church is the family of God.  Let’s unpack how the waters of baptism join us to the church, the family of God.

  1. Water = Family/Community

What do these cities have in common: Lansing, Grand Ledge, Portland, Ionia, Saranac, Lowell, Grand Rapids, Grandville, and Grand Haven?  They all are found on the banks of the Grand River.  Water is community.  Communities of people always gather along the banks of a water source.  Whether it’s families at the beach, villages around a well, or towns along a river, water is community.  And the waters of baptism are where the community that is the family of God gather.  When you are baptized you enter into the family of God.

  1. Water = Birth into a family

Water also plays a significant part in birth.  Think about the waters of the womb or “water breaking.”  I asked my mom friends on Facebook when their water broke.  Some had it break in the hospital.  Others had their doctor or midwife break their water.  Some in the bathroom.  Some in bed.  One was at an MSU basketball game on senior night at halftime!

At some point all of us, whether we’re moms or dads or not, were born in water.  In the waters of our mother’s womb.  The waters of the womb provide nutrients necessary for babies to grow.  They include stem-cells which develop into different parts of the body.  The waters in our mother’s womb allowed movement and development of skin, muscles, and bones.  The waters increase in volume as the baby grows.  They keep the baby at the right temperature.  The waters of the womb provide protection and cushion for the baby.  In the same way that we were all born in the waters of our mother’s womb, each of us is born into God’s family through the waters of baptism.   You might call baptism the “womb of God.”

In baptism we begin to receive what we need to grow in love.  In baptism we begin to find our part in the body of Christ.  In baptism we begin to develop into all that God has called and created us to become.  In baptism God’s grace begins to grow to meet us where we are.  In baptism we are protected.  As Ryan Chorpenning said when he was baptized, “I’ve been a licensed life guard since age 16.  I’ve always guarded other people. I now need someone to guard me.”

Baptism is the “womb of God.”  In baptism we are born into the family of God.

  1. Water = Cleansing & Forgiveness

Family is a nice idea, isn’t it?  Well, yes and no.  Families are kinda messed up, aren’t they?  Everyone wants a family, just not the one they’ve got.  My family is kinda messed up.  I’m part of the problem.  All of us are.  I have a brother who my family hadn’t seen in many many years.  Maybe fifteen years.  He had gotten into drugs and alcohol and generally had a hard time making life work.  He left the family.  A couple of months ago I began to feel really convicted that we weren’t trying to find him.  So I began to look.  Through a unique series of events, we found him and reconnected with him.  When I met with him last, he grabbed my hand and looked me in the eye and said, “Tom, I’m sorry for not being a very good brother.  Forgive me.”  Of course I did.  Then I looked him in the face and said, “Dan, I took too long to seek you out.  Please forgive me.”  It was a beautiful moment of forgiveness in the midst of the mess of family.

Forgiveness is the glue that holds families together.  Forgiveness has two parts: confession and forgiveness.  My oldest son broke a serving spoon while using it as a drumstick with his drums.  He brought it to my wife and said he was sorry.  He kept saying he was sorry.  Then eventually he added, “I forgive you.”  #micahsayings.   He intuitively understood that confession and forgiveness go hand in hand.  We confess.  Then we forgive.  Kids are so instructive in the basics of family life.  I have another younger son, Sam.  He and Micah had this exchange one day.

Sam: Micah knocked down my chocho train.
Micah: I was angry.
Me: It’s not a good idea to knock things down when you’re angry.
Micah: I’m sorry Sam.  Will you forgive me?
Sam: Yes…You knocked down my chocho train!
#samsayings

Sam had the mechanics down of what to say, but not quite the spirit of the whole thing.  Confession and forgiveness go hand in hand.  There are two kinds of forgiveness that we all need: forgiveness between people and forgiveness between God and people.  Both include confession and forgiveness.  When we confess to God, God forgives us.  No matter how messed up we are or how messed up our actions are.  Sister Helen Prejean, spiritual advisor to Elmo “Pat” Sonnier who was convicted of rape and murder of two teenagers, said, “Everyone is worth more than the worst thing we’ve done.”  One of the people I baptized in the past was struggling with his past and some of the things he did while in the military.  He said at his baptism, “After 41 years of trying to figure out why God would forgive me when I can’t forgive myself, I’ve decided that it doesn’t matter what I think.  It only matters what God thinks.”

We all know what it’s like to wash our hands and bodies in water.  I go to the gym and come back all smelly.  I jump in the shower and stand under the water.  I come out clean and new.  My kids play in the dirt (why can’t they just play in the sand).  They get dirt everywhere.  Fingers.  Toes.  Hands.  Face.  We go inside and wash it all away with water.  Water cleanses us.  The waters of baptism cleanse us too.  In baptism we bring all our messiness and all our dirt and God washes it away.  We confess to the ways we haven’t lived up to our own standards let alone God’s.  And then God receives that confession and forgives us.  He forgives us because of what his son, Jesus, has done for us.  In Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection we are freed from our bondage, healed of our brokenness, and forgiven of our guilt.  We are washed clean.  Baptism is washing.  Baptism is forgiveness.  Baptism is the forgiveness of family.  God’s family.

Friends, today those who are being baptized are no longer just our neighbors.  They are our family.  They join the family of God.

To the parents and candidates
Tom: Do you seek to avoid evil and do good?
Parents/Candidates: I do.

Tom: Do you confess Jesus as Savior and Lord in community with the church?
Parents/Candidates: I do.

Tom: Will you stay in love with God?
Parents/Candidates: By God’s grace, I will

Tom: Do you believe in God?
Parents/Candidates:
I believe in God, the Father almighty, Creator of heaven and earth.

Tom: Do you believe in Jesus Christ?
I believe in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord.
He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary.
He suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried.
He descended to the dead.
On the third day He rose again.
He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
He will come again to judge the living and the dead.

Tom: Do you believe in the Holy Spirit?
I believe in the Holy Spirit,
the holy Catholic Church,
the communion of saints,
the forgiveness of sins,
the resurrection of the body,
and life everlasting. Amen.

To parents
Tom: Will you along with the church nurture these children by teaching and example guiding them to accept God’s grace for themselves when they are able?
Parents: I will.

To the church
Tom: Do you as the body of Christ, the church, reaffirm your own desire to avoid evil and commit to Christ by doing good?  If so, say “We do.”
Church: We do.

Tom: Will you nurture one another, these children, teenagers, and adults in the Christian faith and life, and surround them with a community of love and forgiveness?  If so, say “We will.”
Church: We will.

Confirmation (for those reaffirming their faith) & Anointing with Oil
When they come up out of the water…
Tom: NAME, the Lord defend you with his heavenly grace and by his Spirit confirm you in the faith and fellowship of all true disciples of Jesus Christ.
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The Lord bless you, and keep you;
The Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you.
The Lord lift up His countenance upon you,
and give you peace. Numbers 6: 24-26

Congregational Remembrance
Tom: Friends, remember your baptism and be thankful.

Big Bang Faith – The Faith and Medicine Algorithm

Big Bang Faith

Big Bang Faith – The Faith and Medicine Algorithm
Sycamore Creek Church
May 6, 2012
Tom Arthur
Luke 4:14-20

Bazinga, Friends!

I am naturally a skeptic. When it comes to the supernatural and miraculous, I tend to have a lot of questions. I’ve never seen a miraculous healing, even though I hear claims about them all the time. When I was in elementary school, I had a bad skateboarding accident and seriously cut up my knee. When I walked the mile to get home with blood streaming down my leg, I found an empty house. My mom was gone. I got into bed and prayed that if God stopped the bleeding, I’d read the Bible from front to back. I picked up the Bible and began reading Genesis. Well, the bleeding did eventually stop, but it didn’t appear to be anything more than natural processes at work. I did eventually read my entire Bible, but not for several years.

While reading for this sermon, I was at a café and put my book on the counter to pay. One of the employees picked it up and asked what I was reading. It was a book titled Miracles. I told her it was a book about miracles and then asked her if she had ever experienced any miracles. She thought for a moment and then went on to tell me how every day life is a miracle. She is a gardener and finds the beauty of flowers to be a miracle. I agree, but that’s not really what I mean when I talk about a miracle. I’m talking about something that doesn’t happen every day. Something unexpected.

While researching for this message, I came across a show called Miracles for Sale by a famous British illusionist named Darren Brown. The U.K.’s version of David Copperfield. Brown studied the “tricks” that faith healers use, a mixture of illusion and psychological suggestion, then secretly auditioned actors to play the part of a faith healer and taught that person how to use illusions and psychological suggestion to “heal” people. They traveled to Texas and put on a faith healing service, and “healed” people. Their attack was not against faith or the church, but against manipulative, fraudulent faith healers who sell miracles. I found the whole show very compelling, but while certain faith healers who closely tie together money and healing may be charlatans, I’m not sure that healings are always just illusions.

The closest I’ve come to something miraculous are two stories my mom tells about encountering angels. One happened while I was in elementary school and riding in the car with her. She had left her wallet on the top of the car when she filled the gas tank up. She was a single mom at the time, and when she realized what she had done, she became very anxious. She had a car full of kids and was on a busy road, so she prayed for God to send her someone to help her find her wallet. She locked the doors, told us to stay put, and went looking for her wallet. At some point she looked up and a man was walking toward her. He had her wallet. She was extremely grateful and thanked him profusely. When she turned around to walk back to the car, she decided she ought to give him some cash from her wallet as a gift for helping her. She turned back around to give him some money, and he was gone! Vanished! Nowhere to be seen. She believes God sent her an angel.

I think that many of us have this one basic question when it comes to faith and healing: do miraculous healings happen?

Miracles?

David Hume, one key Enlightenment era philosopher, had this to say about miracles:

There is not to be found, in all history, any miracle attested by a sufficient number of men, of such unquestioned good sense, education, and learning, as to secure us against all delusion in themselves.

I think that a lot of us have that same sentiment. Hume’s statement also has a subtle prejudice in it that comes out more strongly elsewhere when he says:

It forms a strong presumption against all spiritual and miraculous relations, that they are observed chiefly to abound among ignorant and barbarous people.

Basically, Hume is saying that if you’re not a white educated western man, your thoughts on this topic aren’t very reliable. And if we’re honest, I think most of us hold at least some version of this same prejudice. Those cultures in “third world” countries are naturally more superstitious and too easily believe in the supernatural.

In his book The Screwtape Letters C.S. Lewis tells the story of an elder demon mentoring a younger demon. In the preface to this book, Lewis says,

There are two equal and opposite errors into which our race can fall about devils. One is to disbelieve in their existence. The other is to believe, and to feel an excessive and unhealthy interest in them.

Perhaps those of us in the west are too prone to disbelieve in the supernatural and those in the majority of the world are too prone to believe in the supernatural. While it may be inappropriate to fall in the extremes when it comes to faith and healing, there is no doubt that healing is part of the story of Jesus as told by the Bible.

Jesus Heals

At the very beginning of Jesus’ public ministry and teaching, he stands up in a synagogue and reads from the book of Isaiah. Here is what he reads and says:

Luke 4:14-21 NLT

Then Jesus returned to Galilee, filled with the Holy Spirit’s power. Soon he became well known throughout the surrounding country. He taught in their synagogues and was praised by everyone.

When he came to the village of Nazareth, his boyhood home, he went as usual to the synagogue on the Sabbath and stood up to read the Scriptures. The scroll containing the messages of Isaiah the prophet was handed to him, and he unrolled the scroll to the place where it says:

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
for he has appointed me to preach Good News to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim
that captives will be released,
that the blind will see,
that the downtrodden will be freed from their oppressors,
and that the time of the Lord’s favor has come.”

He rolled up the scroll, handed it back to the attendant, and sat down. Everyone in the synagogue stared at him intently. Then he said, “This Scripture has come true today before your very eyes!”

Jesus claims that in him the prophesy of Isaiah that justice will come and people will be healed has come true. And then as you read the first four books of the New Testament, you see this coming true. Jesus heals the blind, lame, deaf, paraplegic, demon possessed, epileptic, and more. Gerd Theissen and Annette Merz, Bible scholars at the University of Heidelberg, say that “nowhere else are so many miracles reported of a single person as they are in the Gospels of Jesus.” Another scholar points out that “31 percent of the verses in Mark’s Gospel involve miracles in some way, or some 40 percent of his narrative!” (Keener, pg 66).

But aren’t these healing stories just an example of the big fish story? It was so big that by the time it got away and the story has been told over and over, it was the size of a whale! Aren’t these miracle stories just legendary mythical additions to the text over time? Craig Keener points out that “contrary to assumptions that miracle stories would always grow in time, other Gospels’ use of Mark shows that abbreviation was as common as development” (Keener, pg 31). John Meier, a New Testament scholar at Notre Dame adds that “the early dating of the literary testimony to Jesus’ miracles, the closeness of the dates of the written ‘docs’ to the alleged miracles of Jesus’ life, is almost unparalleled for the period” (Keener, pg 71).

It turns out that these miracle stories, while they can’t be proved, are not so spurious as some have thought. But assuming that Jesus did really heal people back in the day, will Jesus heal me?

Pray for Healing and Make Healthy Choices

Sometimes I think that we treat God like a genie in a bottle. Got a problem? Rub the bottle and out pops God to give us three wishes. But God is even more generous than the genie, because every time we have a problem and rub the bottle, we get three more wishes!

My own observation, which I think is pretty obvious, is that while God can and does heal, God does not always heal when and how you want. God’s usual way of working in the world is to allow actions to have natural consequences. Do you expect God to overturn the natural consequences of poor choices? Do you not study for a test and then pray to pass? Do you sit on your duff all day long without ever exercising and pray for your heart blockage to be healed? Do you smoke a pack a day and then pray for God to heal your lung cancer? God’s usual way of working in the world is to work through natural means. So seek out doctors, physical therapists, trainers, coaches, dieticians, and the like. God is less like a genie and more like a surgeon. He is less likely to give you your three wishes and more likely to cut the cancer out of your bad habits.

Now there is a perception out there that being a Christian is somehow a kind of an unhealthy mental illness. If you’re a believer, you must be unhealthy. You can see this in one of the new atheists, Richard Dawkins’ book titled: The God Delusion. The implication is clear: Faith = mental illness.

Research actually shows the opposite. The Duke University Center for the Study of Religion and Spirituality has been studying the effects of faith and faith practices on health for many years now. The truth is that if you participate in faith practices, you are likely to be more healthy. Here is a list of some of their findings:

  • People who regularly attend church, pray individually, and read the Bible have significantly lower diastolic blood pressure than the less religious. Those with the lowest blood pressure both attend church and pray or study the Bible often.
  • People who attend church regularly are hospitalized much less often than people who never or rarely participate in religious services.
  • People with strong religious faith are less likely to suffer depression from stressful life events, and if they do, they are more likely to recover from depression than those who are less religious.
  • People with strong faith who suffer from physical illness have significantly better health outcomes than less religious people.
  • People who attend religious services regularly have stronger immune systems than their less religious counterparts.
  • Religious people live longer.

(Taken from The Healing Power of Faith by Harold Koenig, M.D.)

So pray for healing and expect to be healed, but don’t forget to make healthy choices too. And one of those healthy choices is choosing to pray!

The Purpose of Healing

So is disease always about the poor choices you made? Are you sick because you sinned? Jesus is asked a question like this:

“Teacher,” his disciples asked him, “why was this man born blind? Was it a result of his own sins or those of his parents?” “It was not because of his sins or his parents’ sins,” Jesus answered. “He was born blind so the power of God could be seen in him.”
John 9:2-4 NLT

Jesus points out that this blindness has nothing to do with personal sin. No one sinned in such a way that the man was born blind. Since the man was born blind, I guess the people asking Jesus this question thought that someone could sin before birth! Jesus points out that they’re asking the wrong question. The ultimate purpose of healing is to bring God glory.

Imagine with me for a moment what kind of glory we would bring God if SCC became known as oasis of health and healing amidst a broken and diseased culture. What if we became known as a hospital for the sick? We should attract the sick, but if we are faithfully teaching how to practice the faith, they should experience healing here too.

Actually, I already see it happening. There’s a small group of women who, concerned about their health, are meeting to run and/or walk in preparation for an upcoming 5K. They call it a Run for God small group. Exercising in a group is always easier than exercising alone. There’s an accountability in the process of being active with friends.

I see people in our church losing weight. I myself have lost some weight lately. All the men in my family are overweight and suffering from some kind of diabetes. I have a covenant with my pants that I will never leave them nor forsake them. Back in November my pants were getting a little tight as I was hitting the upper end of my healthy weight limit. Instead of waiting until I was overweight, I decided to lose some weight. I bought into Weight Watchers online and have lost fifteen pounds since November, and now I’m in the middle of my healthy weight range. But I also know some among us who have lost thirty or forty pounds and have regained significant health in the process.

I have seen people in our church quit smoking or give up drugs or alcohol. They’ve done so after being convicted by God’s Spirit at work in their heart or mind. Some who are struggling with emotional or relational issues have found support and help for coping in our support group that meets twice a month. I see people rebuilding broken relationships, forgiving past harm, and renewing their marriages. God is at work healing in our church. So does God heal, and can God heal you? Yes, but not always how or when we want. God is God, not your personal genie.