June 19, 2013

What about objections?

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Several weeks ago I did a sermon in the One Fish Two Fish series about evangelism trying to engage the questions that people thought might come up or had come up when they talk about the faith with others.  I had them submit questions on 3×5 cards and via text.  Here are the questions that were submitted.  I wasn’t able to answer them all, but here’s the manuscript of some answers to some of these questions.  I thought some of you might enjoy hearing what others are thinking.  This list also helps me as I plan future messages.  Thanks for asking great questions!

Question Cards

  1. What if God is obviously working (fruit evident) in their life and they know/claim that… yet don’t know Jesus or the need for Him to move on with God?
  2. How do I get non-believers to go from science to God?
  3. How do you interest someone in God if they are unwilling to hear it?
  4. If God has a plan for my life why do I need to pray?
  5. Why do bad things happen?
  6. [?] feel more like a family to me than my own family.  I turn to them because I feel lost.
  7. My life is great…good job, family and friends.  Why do I need God?
  8. I don’t believe the Bible’s anything more than stories.  What proof do you have?
  9. People who believe in God are just misled.  Look at all that has been done in God’s name that is wrong.  So why is it right now?
  10. Why are Christians such judgmental hypocrites?
  11. So, someone says “your God doesn’t seem very nice and lets a lot of bad things happen.”
  12. Why should I want to be a part of that?
  13. I heard Gary speak about meeting an atheist:  So I ran into an atheist and said, “Well I wouldn’t worship that God either.”  And his answer was that is one of the first things people say…can you come up with a different answer, not a pat answer?
  14. I haven’t memorized a lot of the Bible…is sharing faith through my own experiences in Christ appropriate?
  15. What are you to say from goal on football field to cross and deeper…some connection lines?
  16. If you all worship the same God (Jews, Muslims, etc.) why are you right?  You are just being intolerant.
  17. How can you be a Christian when you…swear at the TV during sport?  Got drunk last 4th of July?  Etc…..
  18. The Bible is super old.  A lot of it seems superstitious.  Haven’t we moved on from all that?  How does a 2000 year old story from a different time and culture relate to today?
  19. My child in elementary school was told by a friend, “God isn’t real.  God is a myth like Santa or the Tooth Fairy.”  How should an elementary school student respond to that?
  20. How do you help get people to take you seriously when they smirk and think, “You really believe that?”
  21. Where do you go to church?  I don’t…..  I’m spiritual and I don’t think that you have to go to Church…..I’ve gone before but I didn’t really get a lot out of it…..besides, they’re hypocrites.
  22. People complain that Christians ignore things like:  Solomon’s relationships with concubines and David’s adultery and 2nd degree murder.
  23. Why?  How?  Where?  When?  Who?  What?  Always?
  24. I have several gay and lesbian friends who have said they won’t come to Church with me because they’re afraid they won’t be welcome.
  25. What would you say to someone when they ask you why does God let bad things happen?  When you explain to them he doesn’t, people have God’s will and the devil plays a strong part then they say God gave us the devil.  How do you respond at that time?
  26. Why do bad things happen?
  27. How could there be a God who allows his people to treat others so badly?
  28. Why would God protect some people from harm but not others?  (Even when they’re good people?)
  29. How could there be a God who would create me to be something that is unaccepted by his people?  (In reference to being gay)
  30. What about all the so called miracles.  Do you really believe Jesus healed all those people with his touch?  Do you really believe Moses parted the Red Sea?  And if those things didn’t really happen, how can you believe the rest of the Bible is true?
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The Next Christians

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The Next Christians

“The bottom line is that the next Christian has a calling and a responsibility to think, work, and live in terms of how the world ought to be in contrast to reacting to how it really is.”
~Gabe Lyons

Ever feel embarrassed to call yourself a Christian?  The culture has changed.  The church has changed.  The next Christian has changed.  The next Christians “see themselves on a mission, partnering with God to breathe justice and mercy and peace and compassion and generosity into the world.”  Is that you?  Explore with us how God is doing a new work of beauty, grace, justice, and love in the world through the next generation of Christians and find out what that means for you.  We meet on Sundays at Lansing Christian School (3405 Belle Chase Way) @ 9:30 & 11:15AM and Mondays at Grumpy’s Diner (5600 S Pennsylvania) @ 7:00PM.  Join in the adventure of exploration!

June 2/3 – The Next Generation (Graduation Sunday)
June 9/10 – The Next Christians
June 16/17 – The Next Church
June 23/24 – The Next Lansing (Conversation with an atheist)

This series is influenced by Gabe Lyons’ book, The Next Christians: Seven Ways You Can Live the Gospel and Restore the World.  Pick up a copy and read along with us throughout this series.

“Today, I sense something different is happening. I see evidence that the Holy Spirit is working in a new way. He’s moving through people where they work and through one-on-one relationships to accomplish great things. They are demonstrating God’s love to those around them, not just with words, but in deed.”
~Gabe Lyons

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Why Give to SCC? Quarterly Financial Letter

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Dear Friends,

I was recently presented this question: Is your church the best place for someone to give their money?  The answer is yes.  Here’s why.

Most of you are probably familiar with the Agnostic Pub group that I co-lead.  We read a book at a pub and then switch pubs when we switch books.  It’s a group where those who aren’t so sure about this whole Christianity thing can go and find some community.  I am usually the only Christian in the group.  The rest are made up of agnostics, atheists, and everything in between.  Most attend our church.  Some are friends of those who attend our church.  A couple of weeks ago this is what happened…

Several of us had gathered and were beginning to catch up when someone new to our church showed up.  She has come pretty consistently to our Church in a Diner and was intrigued by the group because she had a lot of questions about religion and faith.  An Agnostic Pub group sounded like just thing she needed.

When she sat down at the table I realized that we needed to do some introductions so I asked each person to share their name and to explain why they were at the Agnostic Pub group on a Thursday night rather than somewhere else.  Their answers floored me.

One by one each of these “agnostics” talked about how amazing our church was.  They weren’t sure yet about Jesus, but they couldn’t stop gushing about how great SCC was.  It was warm and welcoming.  It was a safe place to ask questions.  The sermons were always helpful (I didn’t make that up).  Hard questions were open for discussion.  They went on and on.  At one point, one person realized how much they were gushing about SCC and sheepishly said, “Tom didn’t pay us to say this.”  Here were a bunch of agnostics who had become evangelists for SCC to another agnostic!  They weren’t yet evangelists for Jesus, but they were more than half-way there.

That’s why SCC is the best place to give your money.  And that’s only one of a dozen stories I could tell you about the last couple of months.  We’re a curious, creative, and compassionate community that is building bridges with people who have never entered the church or who have been hurt by the church.  We welcome their questions about God.  We’re creative in all we do to reach out to them.  And we show everyone, agnostics included, God’s compassion.

You already know this.  That’s why you give to SCC.  I wanted to share this story with you to show you one way your giving is transforming lives.  Your tithes, offerings, capital campaign pledges (over $283,000 given to date!), and designated special giving (over $2700 given this quarter!) help us ignite authentic life in Christ by connecting people to God and one another, growing disciples into the character of Christ, and helping each person to serve our church, community, and world.  Thank you for your generous giving!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!

Pastor Tom

P.S. The absolute easiest way I know to regularly give is to automate the process either through EFT or setting up a regular check to be mailed through your online banking. Then you transform lives even when you can’t always make it to worship.  Included is an EFT form for your convenience.  EFT can be changed at any point by simply calling the church office.

 

Designated Special Giving (DSG)

Listed below are opportunities to touch people’s lives.  One just might catch hold of your heart, spirit, or imagination, and God won’t let it get out of your mind.  Prayerfully look over the list below and consider whether God is calling you to give to one of these DSG opportunities?  DSG is an above-and-beyond giving opportunity, above and beyond other commitments you’ve made to the church such as your annual Commitment Sunday pledge, your Capital Campaign pledge, or your commitment to Dr. Mir in Nicaragua.  If you can’t give the total amount listed, don’t feel like you can’t contribute.  Perhaps God will speak to five other people too, and their total giving meets the need or opportunity.  Take some time to consider DSG alongside your current giving, and watch what God will do in the coming weeks and months!

  • ·         DONE! Main Projection Screen ($1,400) – Help communicate the gospel effectively and excellently.  Our current screen is showing significant age.
  • ·         DONE! Nursery Gates ($100) – Keeps kids safe and helps parents worship with peace of mind.  Makes our current nursery setup easier.
  • ·         DONE! Floor Mats for the Nursery ($40) – Makes a clean soft place for kids to play.
  • ·         DONE! Percussion Shaker ($30) – Adds more variety to the sound of our music and creates an environment where people can go deeper in God’s grace through worship music.
  • Youth Ministry Intern ($5000 – $1500 given!) – We’d like to hire a college student as a year-round youth intern to help our youth go deeper in God’s grace.
  • Leadership Training ($300+ – $400 given!  This need never runs out.) – Conferences, workshops and coaching help our paid/unpaid staff continue to improve their craft and reach new people for Christ.
  • Appreciation Gift Cards ($5+ – $200 given!  This need never runs out.) – A small gift card to a coffee shop, etc. can go a long way in showing appreciation to and retaining volunteers.
  • Outreach Events ($500+) – Help reach new people for Christ through several outreach events planned for the coming year that will include renting tents, bounce houses, and possibly even a river boat!
  • StuREV Event Scholarships ($200+) – Provide scholarships for students and chaperones to events like Acquire the Fire, winter retreat and more that will deepen the faith of our youth.
  • Parsonage Landscape Projects ($500+) – Improve the landscape of our parsonage (SCC owned pastor’s house).  Shrubs, lawn care, mulching, and more will help make a good first impression.
  • Signage ($100 to $2000) – We’re working on a new office sign, street signs, signs going into Lansing Christian School, and signs inside LCS that show our new logo and improve visibility.  Signs create and communicate our identity to the community and are an extension of our hospitality.
  • Guitar ($1000) – The church-owned guitar shows significant wear and tear.  A new guitar adds excellence to the music of our church creating a worship environment for people to encounter God.
  • Nicaragua Meds ($100+) – We send medical teams to Nicaragua twice a year to share God’s compassion.  A huge expense that pays significant dividends in health is medicine.  Many maladies can be simply treated with the appropriate meds.  Share God’s compassion with medicine for Nicaragua.
  • Member Care Training ($9500) – We are exploring bringing in John Savage several times over the next year.  Savage is a consultant we have worked with before who specializes in member care through training in listening skills.  This would help us expand our capacity for showing compassion within our community and help retain people when they experience bumps in life and the church.

If you would like to give to one or more of these Designated Special Giving opportunities, simply drop a check in the offering bag and write “DSG” and the name of the DSG (i.e. “DSG: New Screen”).

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One Fish Two Fish How Do I Do This?

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One Fish Two Fish How Do I Do This?

Jesus told his followers that he would make them fish for people.  But how do we fish for people?  Sometimes that seems scary, even overwhelming.  Learn the why, how, who what, and when of sharing your faith with those around you.  We meet on Sundays at Lansing Christian School (3405 Belle Chase Way) @ 9:30 & 11:15AM and Mondays at Grumpy’s Diner (5600 S Pennsylvania) @ 7:00PM.  Come learn how to fish!

April 28/29 – Why share the faith?
May 5/6 – How to share the faith?
May 12/13 – Who to share the faith with?
May 19/20 – What to do with objections?
May 26/27 – When do you share the faith?

 

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Easter: Why?

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Why?

The call we never expect…the diagnosis that knocks us off our feet…the regrets that keep us up at night. How could God let it happen? Why didn’t God answer that prayer? What does it mean when God feels distant? God welcomes our questions. We meet on Sundays at Lansing Christian School (3405 Belle Chase Way) @ 9:30 & 11:15AM and Mondays at Grumpy’s Diner (5600 S Pennsylvania) @ 7:00PM (& 8:30PM on Easter Monday).  Join us as we explore the questions about God and life that keep us up at night.

March 31 (Easter) – Why do bad things happen to good people?
Easter Egg Hunt – [insert time]
April 1 (Easter Monday) – Why do bad things happen to good people?
Breakfast Bash: bring a friend, breakfast on us
TWO SERVICES at Church in a Diner: 7:00PM & 8:30PM
April 7/8 – Why would God use me?
April 14/15 – Why doesn’t God answer my prayers?
April 21/22 – Why don’t I always feel God?

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Anna Carter Florence on Pentecost

Duke ChapelI watched this sermon this morning while exercising.  It is a sermon on Pentecost, the birth of the church.  I found Florence’s conclusion powerful and convicting.  I think its worth taking the time to watch (the sermon begins around 46:45).

 

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John Bunyan on Prayer

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“In prayer it is better to have a heart without words than words without a heart. ”
― John Bunyan

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Baggage Claim – Divorce II

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On Sunday, February 24th, we had a guest speaker, Beth Byerley, a local Christian counselor share with us some thoughts on divorce.  Here’s her excellent message:

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In the Wilderness

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wil·der·ness – noun \ˈwil-dər-nəs\
1 : wild or uncultivated state
2 : a bewildering situation
3 : the Hebrew name for the book of Numbers

Ever find yourself in the wilderness?  We all do.  Join us as we explore how a wild and bewildering situation brought a rag tag group of people together to become God’s people.  We meet on Sundays at Lansing Christian School (3405 Belle Chase Way) @ 9:30 & 11:15AM and Mondays at Grumpy’s Diner (5600 S Pennsylvania) @ 7:00PM.  It all happens in the wilderness.

March 10/11 – Birth in the Wilderness
March 17/18 – Testing in the Wilderness
March 24/25 – End of Wilderness

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Small Groups at SCC

This past Sunday, Mark Aupperlee, our Small Groups team leader handed out an excellent sheet sumarizing our small group philosophy and method at SCC.  I thought it was good enough to post for others to see.

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Small Groups at SCC

At Sycamore Creek Church we believe that small groups are essential for spiritual growth. We orient spiritual growth at SCC around a three-part process of connecting, growing, and serving. A small group is a committed group of people who are connecting (to God and one another through social events and celebration), growing (in the character of Christ by holding one another accountable to worship teaching content), and serving (the church and through missions commitment to the community).

Thus, small groups at Sycamore Creek Church have three objectives: Connecting, Growing, Serving.

Connecting
-small group meeting two times per month
-host a “connect event” (social event) one time per year
-regularly attend worship services
-attend GroupLink connection event twice a year

Why be in a small group?
http://www.smallgroups.com/articles/2011/sgreallyabout.html

Growing
-accountability to each other in order to grow in Christ
-regular sharing of struggles and celebrations
-discussion and application of sermon content from worship services

Why sermon-based small groups?
http://www.smallgroups.com/articles/2011/iamsuchabeliever.html

Serving
-serve each other in the group
-regular mission to the greater Lansing area
-encourage individuals to serve within a ministry of the church

Why small groups and mission?
http://www.smallgroups.com/articles/2010/whysgonmission.html

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